{"id":943,"date":"2020-08-12T15:38:01","date_gmt":"2020-08-12T15:38:01","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/zethenterprises.com\/?p=943"},"modified":"2020-10-24T17:12:04","modified_gmt":"2020-10-24T17:12:04","slug":"de-ce-vin-si-pleaca","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/zethenterprises.com\/en\/daca-vrei-sa-ma-citesti-bine-citeste-ma\/de-ce-vin-si-pleaca","title":{"rendered":"De ce vin \u0219i pleac\u0103?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Probabil unul dintre cele mai grele lucruri prin care trecem este pierderea unei persoane, iar acest lucru nu este neap\u0103rat precedat de un eveniment tragic, ci pur \u0219i simplu de o \u00een\u0219iruire de \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103ri \u0219i contexte care duc la distan\u021bare \u0219i poate ne\u00een\u021belegere. Oricum ar fi, este un lucru care ne afecteaz\u0103 destul de mult \u0219i pe care nu mereu \u00eel \u00een\u021belegem. Nu \u00een\u021belegem unde s-a produs fisura care a dus mai apoi la destr\u0103mare \u0219i nu \u00een\u021belegem de ce piesele nu pot fi adunate pentru a reconstrui ce a fost la \u00eenceput. Nu exist\u0103 un r\u0103spuns clar, concis sau logic atunci c\u00e2nd vine vorba de pierderea unei persoane, dar exist\u0103 c\u00e2teva lucruri pe care ni le putem spune drept consolare \u0219i aproape toate se \u00eenv\u00e2rt \u00een jurul afirma\u021biei cu iz de Instagram: <em>\u201eprietenii vin \u0219i pleac\u0103\u201d<\/em>.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Prietenii vin \u0219i pleac\u0103. De ce? E un r\u0103spuns simplu, dar chiar merit\u0103 o b\u0103taie de tobe! Fii preg\u0103tit, stai confortabil&#8230; auzi tobele alea mi\u0219to pe fundal? Perfect! Acum imagineaz\u0103-\u021bi c\u0103 se trage o cortin\u0103 groas\u0103 ca la Teatrul Na\u021bional \u0219i \u00een spatele ei e Taylor Swift&#8230; ok, nu, \u00eemi \u00eencurc visele cu articolul&#8230; \u00cen spatele cortinei e scris mare \u0219i str\u0103lucitor cuv\u00e2ntul \u201eschimbare\u201d. Nu, nu pleca \u00eenc\u0103&#8230; \u0219tiu c\u0103 ai auzit \u0219i tu de schimbare \u00een general, dar poate vrei s\u0103 vezi \u0219i perspectiva acestui articol!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image alignwide size-large\"><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"692\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/zethenterprises.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/children-1544208-692x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-1065\" srcset=\"https:\/\/zethenterprises.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/children-1544208-692x1024.jpg 692w, https:\/\/zethenterprises.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/children-1544208-203x300.jpg 203w, https:\/\/zethenterprises.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/children-1544208-768x1136.jpg 768w, https:\/\/zethenterprises.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/children-1544208-1038x1536.jpg 1038w, https:\/\/zethenterprises.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/children-1544208-1384x2048.jpg 1384w, https:\/\/zethenterprises.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/children-1544208-300x444.jpg 300w, https:\/\/zethenterprises.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/children-1544208-600x888.jpg 600w, https:\/\/zethenterprises.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/children-1544208-scaled.jpg 1731w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 692px) 100vw, 692px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Dac\u0103 vrei s\u0103 ar\u0103\u021bi pe cineva cu degetul pentru destr\u0103marea unei prietenii, \u021bi-am g\u0103sit \u201e\u021bapul isp\u0103\u0219itor\u201d perfect, pentru c\u0103 adev\u0103rul e c\u0103 majoritatea prieteniilor se r\u0103cesc de cele mai multe ori din cauza unor schimb\u0103ri. Ce fel de schimb\u0103ri? De tot felul, e un catalog \u00eentreg: schimb\u0103ri de interese, cercuri, pasiuni, locuri. Orice lucru mic \u0219i nevinovat poate influen\u021ba rela\u021bia pe care o avem cu o persoan\u0103. O schimbare foarte mare are loc de exemplu atunci c\u00e2nd intr\u0103m la liceu. Liceul este perioada \u00een care ne form\u0103m cel mai mult ca persoane, ne des\u0103v\u00e2r\u0219im \u0219i ne set\u0103m idealuri. \u00cencepem s\u0103 privim lucrurile dintr-o alt\u0103 perspectiv\u0103, s\u0103 c\u00e2nt\u0103rim oamenii din jurul nostru dup\u0103 alte valori \u0219i nici chiar rela\u021biile vechi nu scap\u0103 de acest proces. Unele rela\u021bii trec \u0219i se potrivesc \u00een continuare cu aspira\u021biile noastre, altele au deja diferen\u021be prea mari de interese \u0219i \u00eencet, \u00eencet \u00ee\u0219i pierd din intensitate.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Acum c\u0103 am identificat vinovatul pentru pierderea unei prietenii, \u00ee\u021bi voi da \u0219i un mic bandaj colorat de pus pe ran\u0103. Oric\u00e2t de mult doare, schimbarea este absolut \u00een regul\u0103 \u0219i chiar necesar\u0103 pentru c\u0103 \u00eenseamn\u0103 \u0219i evolu\u021bie, iar evolu\u021bia este ceva ce vrei s\u0103 iei de pe raft de la supermarket. Cu alte cuvinte, nu te \u00eempotrivi schimb\u0103rii. \u00cen fine, nici nu prea po\u021bi, vrei nu vrei, timpul te va schimba oricum, dar dac\u0103 \u00eencerci s\u0103 opui rezisten\u021b\u0103 nu vei face dec\u00e2t s\u0103 te r\u0103ne\u0219ti pe tine. Nu po\u021bi s\u0103 te bucuri de un prezent \u0219i nici de un viitor bun, dac\u0103 <em>lup\u021bi \u00een continuare pentru trecut<\/em>. A\u0219a c\u0103 cel mai bun lucru pe care \u00eel po\u021bi face e s\u0103 te adaptezi \u0219i s\u0103 mergi \u00eenainte, chiar dac\u0103 asta \u00eenseamn\u0103 s\u0103 renun\u021bi la c\u00e2teva lucruri vechi pe parcurs. &nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image alignwide size-large\"><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"771\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/zethenterprises.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/children-at-the-vending-machine-2-1326117-771x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-1066\" srcset=\"https:\/\/zethenterprises.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/children-at-the-vending-machine-2-1326117-771x1024.jpg 771w, https:\/\/zethenterprises.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/children-at-the-vending-machine-2-1326117-226x300.jpg 226w, https:\/\/zethenterprises.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/children-at-the-vending-machine-2-1326117-768x1020.jpg 768w, https:\/\/zethenterprises.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/children-at-the-vending-machine-2-1326117-1156x1536.jpg 1156w, https:\/\/zethenterprises.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/children-at-the-vending-machine-2-1326117-1542x2048.jpg 1542w, https:\/\/zethenterprises.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/children-at-the-vending-machine-2-1326117-300x398.jpg 300w, https:\/\/zethenterprises.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/children-at-the-vending-machine-2-1326117-600x797.jpg 600w, https:\/\/zethenterprises.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/children-at-the-vending-machine-2-1326117-scaled.jpg 1927w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 771px) 100vw, 771px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Nu trebuie nici s\u0103 pl\u00e2ngi pentru ce ai pierdut, deoarece dac\u0103 ai avut ceva de \u00eenv\u0103\u021bat dintr-o rela\u021bie, acea rela\u021bie nu e cu adev\u0103rat pierdut\u0103. Tot ce \u00eenv\u0103\u021b\u0103m ne ajut\u0103 s\u0103 ne form\u0103m. De aceea \u00ee\u021bi sugerez s\u0103 nu te ui\u021bi cu resentimente la un vechi prieten, chiar dac\u0103 v-a\u021bi \u00eendep\u0103rtat de-a lungul timpului, niciunul dintre voi nu a\u021bi fi persoana care sunte\u021bi ast\u0103zi, f\u0103r\u0103 \u201eajutorul\u201d celuilalt.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Un ultim sfat de consolare, \u00eencearc\u0103 s\u0103 \u00eenve\u021bi din gre\u0219eli, s\u0103 r\u0103m\u00e2i optimist \u0219i deschis c\u0103tre schimbare, pentru c\u0103 P\u0103m\u00e2ntul \u0103sta are 7,8 miliarde de oamenii \u0219i nu \u0219tii cine ar putea fi urm\u0103torul t\u0103u cel mai bun prieten. De asemenea, <em>\u201eBreath\u201d<\/em> de la Taylor Swift s-ar putea s\u0103 rezume exact ceea ce sim\u021bi c\u00e2nd pierzi pe cineva, iar <em>\u201eBegin again\u201d<\/em> e exact imnul speran\u021bei <img decoding=\"async\" draggable=\"false\" class=\"eedee-emoji\" alt=\"\ud83d\ude42\" src=\"https:\/\/s.w.org\/images\/core\/emoji\/12.0.0-1\/svg\/1f642.svg\"><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Probabil unul dintre cele mai grele lucruri prin care trecem este pierderea unei persoane, iar acest lucru nu este neap\u0103rat precedat de un eveniment tragic, ci pur \u0219i simplu de o \u00een\u0219iruire de \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103ri \u0219i contexte care duc la distan\u021bare \u0219i poate ne\u00een\u021belegere. Oricum ar fi, este un lucru care ne afecteaz\u0103 destul de mult 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